I have found somebody who I feel completely perfect for me, he comes from a good family, is financially stable and he wants to bring a proposal but he is from Cape Town and is Urdu speaking which my parents do not approve of. I am very confused as to what to do, I feel like all these issues do not matter as long as he is a good muslim from a good family which he is but the old fashioned way of thinking is causing a problem. How do I approach the situation?