Y this strange title???
cos i feel like i belong in a museum of freaks....
i've been divorced now for 11 years...didn't remarry due to great responsibilty (this was beyond my control ), have'nt had sex in all this time...i'd like to think of myself as a PRACTICING AND GOD-FEARING MUSLIM WOMAN...
i was recently introduced to 2 seemingly decent muslim men with a view to marriage...and here's what transpired...
man 1 thought i was a lesbian...he couldn't believe how i could go on with-out sex for so long.
he was aghast that i didn't masturbate...he'd been divorced for a year...when i asked him if he masturbated , he said he couldn't do it...which btw is haraam.
i was asked to send nude pictures of myself to him...
during conversations, he only seemed to come alive when sex was the topic...
he seemed to be o.k with pre-marital sex, justifying his reasoning that we'd both been married before and sex was no big issue...interestingly, he has an unmarried sister in her 30's living at home...i wonder if he would encourage her to lead an active sex life???
he got bored and lost interest soon thereafter cos i wasn't comfortable with all of this...GOOD RIDDANCE.
man 2 was also shocked that i had not been sexually active for so long...he also didn't see anything wrong with pre-marital sex...yet he professes to read his salaah and considers himself to be a good muslim...
i am totally shocked and disgusted at this type of behaviour...
point to men: in this morally corrupt world, where zinaa is so common, there are many many good women who may be single, yet do protect their chastity and willingly choose not to commit zinaa...
DONT BE SHOCKED IF U DO MEET A WOMAN LIKE ME...I'M NOT ABNORMAL...!!!!!