View Full Version : I need more

01-01-2018, 05:14 PM
Slms i am married .i have always wanted sex more than my sexier half. I always thought men want it all the time,everytime.
I was very surprised when we set into a routine of once a week. At some time it was also once every 2 weeks.
We never had a honeymoon phase where it was everyday. First I found that wierd. He just said..once a week satisfies him. If I try to initiate anything he says his tierd.
I stay waxed and Always have sexy underwear on hand.

It makes me a bit suspicious of him.. I wonder if his cheating or jerking off on the side. But for 15 years it's been like this and we have moved overseas and back and it's been the same..so it can't be someone..he showers with the door open and I have watched him. His at work the entire day.I know I check on him. I check his phone all the time.. nothing suspicious like porn or anything. I'm also overweight..I been thin and fat. It's been the same.
Are there other men like this..? Or do I have a problem?

The once a week he initiates and would hint to me during the day..its always great.. I keep thinking replaying it in my mind and i want it again like maybe even the next morning. He says the reason we always have awesome sex is because we wait to do it the entire week. I'm still reeling and getting butterflies in my tummy from memories of 3 nights ago..I'm permanently horny.

In same boat
01-01-2018, 07:39 PM
I am in the same boat, always in the mood however my husband doesn't feel the same. It can go weeks or months and still nothing. Maybe it's an age thing.

01-01-2018, 07:45 PM
Say alhamdulillah that you have appetite sister. And also say alhamdulillah that your husband gives you quality not quantity. Perhaps if you had a daily meal, your intimacy wouldn’t be as special. Strictly speaking he has to satisfy your needs as it ranks higher than him feeding you. At a minimum once in two months is prescribed. In today’s time, make shukr there’s no need for a third party to fulfil his needs or your needs. Keep steadfast in your marriage and look at ways of keeping your intimacy levels as healthy as what they are.

01-01-2018, 08:49 PM
Omw sisters. Im a guy in the totally opposite situation. In my case im the one always charged n ever ready wanting it sometimes more then once a day. Never thought women like yourll existed as for 13yrs its been routine sex premeditated and conventional. Simply boring and shes so ok with it. Trying to initiate anything is exactly the Im tires story or wait for weekend or im a crazy person. Oh and then mufti so n so said do fasting. No comment. I could go on but yeah Sad times indeed.

Horny couple
01-01-2018, 10:09 PM
Dont know the age of your husband but I am 26 years old and my wife is 25. We are always both horny! We can wack it anytime

17-01-2018, 02:48 PM
i say boys as only a man would really want loads of sex especially if they newly weds. Unless a guy is put off by his partner for reasons, other then that he should want it all the time. In todays time and age its hard to find women that have a high sex drive and when a guy finds her, keep her like gold. Some of us men are just fortunate to have the same sex drive that we have in the women we have. send him sexy messages, go on date nights, try different things...