View Full Version : Unhealthy intimacy

01-12-2017, 05:15 PM
"I've been married for 1.5 years and im 36 years old. my husband is 34. we don't seem to have a healthy intimate relationship.. I've googled it but don't really know what is healthy and normal. is once a week normal?

01-12-2017, 06:32 PM
When you talk to people honestly I find the norm is more like once a month if you're lucky. People like to portend is better, but tally is few and far between

01-12-2017, 08:59 PM
Honestly, if you arenít having sex AT LEAST once a week, there is a problem.
I feel like thereís a huge wedge and distance between my husband and myself when we donít have sex for a couple of days.
So I believe to not have sex for a month at a time, is going to be very detrimental to your relationship. And guys biologically need to release every couple of days, so if you arenít satisfying him, he is most probably doing it himself and might be very tempted by women outside the home...

01-12-2017, 09:35 PM
You're only married for 1.5 years. It's practically still the honeymoon stage. You should be intimate at least once a week.

02-12-2017, 12:14 AM
im married 15 years n married very young I have an amazin hubby and love my in laws all but 1 this aunty is aunty by marriage n about the same age as hubby whos 12 years older than me the prob is when hubby isnt around she is very bitchy to me in making comments about the way that I look or comments about how "people " dress revealing im now a hijaabi but used to ummm under dress she is in purda but has no issue with removing it in my husbands company recently she fought with her husband to go for a drive hours out with my husband coz he was going alone as I stayed back to help my inlaws I am in no ways jealous I trust my husband and know he will look at her as nothing but an aunty its just so frustrating coz I know she does these things to make me mad how do I deal with her with out giving in to my instinct and beating her sensless

02-12-2017, 08:19 AM
Definitely not normal , been married for 7 years and still intimate atleast 6 out of 7 days a week.You need to talk to your partner and find out whats going on .