View Full Version : Not satisfied

16-11-2017, 09:08 PM
Assalaamu alaykum

I have been married for almost a year now and my husband can't seem to satisfy me. He seems to always focus on his needs and he always makes my needs seem like an afterthought or the last thing on his mind.

I have suggested trying new positions and different things but we always end up in the same positions and it's always late at night in the dark.

He can never satisfy my needs. I feel like there is something wrong with me.

I have suggested using a vibrator to help him pleasure me but my husband got hurt at that suggestion.

I just don't know what to do.

20-11-2017, 10:22 AM
Its harder for women to reach orgasm via penetration. More women orgasm from the clitoris, so stimulating this will help u rewch orgasm faster.
He can use his fingers or buy a vibrator. There's nothing wrong with it.
Theres also a book called muslimah sex manual. Halaal huide to mind blowing sex. Read it together. Everyone needs to communicate their needs so both parties are satisfied.

23-11-2017, 12:19 PM
He sounds like a bore in the bed room. U need to communicate your needs. Maybe just have foreplay only days where u pleasure each other with touching fingering and licking so that u learn what turns u on.