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    My sister slept with my husband

    Jazakallah, dear brothers and sisters for the strong words of encouragement during this difficult period! I remain positive and with the help of Allah. I will be comforted and healed! It is the reality which I have to accept!I turn to Allah to make it easy for me! My husband I will always love, but I choose to live a separate life now! As, for my sister she continues phoning and playing me like everything is ok!!!How could I look at her for the rest of my life? It will be a bad tasting memory that will never be forgotten!I would like to find out if I would commiting ghunnah if I shut her out of my life forevr? Sisters, out there what would you do if your sister placed u in this dilemma?

    May Allah give us guidance, and keep us all on the straight path! Keep mi in your duas and may Allah make it easy for all of us! (Ameen)


    Jazakallah Brothers and Sisters!

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    We do the worse of sins and Allah with his infinite mercy and grace forgives us. To break family ties is a major sin
    Although you have to be civil with her you dont have to be her best chomie like nothing happened. A believer does not get bit by the same hole twice. Set your boundaries with her
    tell her to give u space.

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    Sadatullah Khan will be in south africa soon. I highly recommend you attend this course. It will give u the skills to deal with this crisis inshaAllah http://www.nanima.co.za/2011/03/disc...datullah-khan/
    also sister haifaa younis is in pretoria today and polokwane next week. Both these courses are life changing

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    Fight for what?

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    Slmz, sister, I understand what u r going through it is a very difficult time, discovering that ur husband has been unfaithful to u, pls do sabr, Allah is on your side, Allah only gives problems to those who he loves, and knows that they can deal with it. This is a test from Allah. When u are ready, forgive your husband, though u will never be able to forget, fight for ur man. Eventually, he will realise that you saved him from the punishment of the grave, and love u more for it, as for your sister, forget her, she is jealous of you.
    Fight for a man with whom her Nikah is no longer valid? It shows how much it's abhorred even in
    Islam! And what is there to fight for when he clearly has no regret and is continuing his evil acts!! It's not a game for the sister to win. Please give good advice.

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    just a word to all on the forum, please if you have no islaamic knowledge on a matter please do not jump the gun and pull out fatwas from your back pocket!!

    sister your nikaah is NOT broken, what your husband did is a major sin and is only zina, it is just a temporary hurma (haraam to marry) because your sister is haraam for him while married to you but she becomes halaal for him if/when you pass away

    and Allaah knows best!

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