Originally Posted by
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Salaam. I have been married for ten years and have two wonderful boys. Over the last two years my husband and been on drugs and is always fighting with me. Six month ago he left work and I have been the sole provider in the house. I give him my entire salary and the end of each month and on top of all of that I do the housework as well as we don't have a domestic. For the last few months he is always fighting with and accusing me of not appreciating him yet he is at home the entire day and does nothing besides pick my son up from school while I am the one that works the whole day and still comes home to do house work.He has even started hitting me when we fight as I tend not to say anything and rather keep quite for the sake of my boys. I am at so confused as to what I should do. Should I stay with him and hope that it gets better or leave. I cannot go to his parents to discuss this as they always take his part and if I tell my parents they will hurt him.I would really appreciate some advice as to what I should consider doing.Jazakallah