Slms I hav two little girls, they are driving me insane. I want to know from other mums how do u teach ur child manners,respect etc. The eldest one is 3 and half years and she is developing to back chat . And she learns the wrong thing so fast.. The small is learning from the big one. I'm jus so lost. How do I go about teaching them all the tings they need to know.I dnt know when it happened but the eldest one knows how to back chat, she can b rude, stubborn and is she soooo moody.they fyt all the tym.they jus dnt listen! Please tell me how u deal with ur unruly kids