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Allahu Akbar my husband is so humble like honestly , it makes it seem that he just comes from work enjoys dinner and relaxes . I am indeed the most luckiest woman on earth to have a man that wears the pants .
He sees to the bills , he sees to his parents and younger sister , he has a business to see to , n the list goes on ..... no I don’t want my husband in the kitchen and doing household chores.
Thank you !!
Why I do what I do ???
If you love somebody than naturally one will go out of their way to do anything and everything for them . I’m sure your wife goes the extra mile to make you feel special everyday n vice verse .
So much of nonsense was said regarding his first post about me be afraid of him , I don’t get a chance to rest cause I slave the whole day for him , I don’t get an allowance , why he don’t get a maid etc so much has been taken out off context .
I am not oppressed lol I know my rights as a Muslim wife but I don’t demand my rights , he fulfills it and more . I know I don’t have to cook for him , I don’t have to make roti and bake something special for him . Marriage is not about demanding n fighting over rights .
A woman can turn the home into a lofty paradise or a burning hell. I choose to make my marital home a palace with love and harmony. There are sacrifices on both sides no doubt , there’s ups and downs and there’s a solution to every problem .
Doing little things for your man brings a smile to his face . small act of happiness has such an effect that it refreshes the man's tired spirits. Some women may think that such behaviour is crazy or I am forced , Like if wants a spoon , he will say “please get me a spoon” some ladies get irritated. Why can’t he just do it himself . What a lazy man . Lol I would give that spoon with a smile.
There are times when the food is salty or I over cooked the rice , or the days when I just don’t want to cook . Hubby never complains , he just eats whatever I make without a fuss. I can give him left overs and he would eat it . He overlooks so much of my wrongs ( I’m no saint ) what’s there if I do a little for him.
We are there for each other in good and bad times .
Lol which woman don’t like to receive gifts from their beloved . He knows I work hard , this is his way of showing appreciation .
I don’t have to answer to anybody for my lifestyle shukar . I am so happily married Allhumdulillah. I love my life .
I am sure every man would want his wife to treats him well , respects n spoils him and pampers him. Every man will want his wife to treat him like a king .
'The greatest gain for a man is a faithful woman who, when she sees him, becomes happy and protects his property and her own honor in his absence'."
'A woman who respects her husband and does not harass him, will be fortunate and prosperous.
A woman asked the Prophet (S) of Allah: 'What good (reward) is awaiting a woman who performs her duties in her husband's house?' The Prophet (S) stated: 'For every activity that she does concerning the household matters, Allah looks on her kindly, and whoever enjoys the grace of Allah would not be tormented'."