How do you be with people who don't want to be with you?

I mean surely u can't force ur presence where its not wanted right?

Or do u just go ahead, and push urself into places and around people that don't want you there and neither value nor appreciate ur presence?

This is for daughters in law especially - how do u just go and be with your in laws when they have shown u outright u are not wanted and loved and that they only tolerate you?

Do u still go ahead and push urself to be part of their company or do u keep away?