reply to onloved daughter in law
Slms. Its obvious that you are very hurt and saddened by this. We all want the love of our parents and sometimes in laws too. Whilst we don't always get it, we have to realise that each family is different. In their communication with each other, the methods of addressing and resolving conflict, even in the way in which they conflict in itself.
If you have tried to resolve things with them and they are not responsive, maybe take a step back. Don't try so hard to get them to love you and accept you, rather you love and accept them. Once we accept our inlaws with all their flaws n eccentrities , we start seeing things differently, and that's how change happens.
stay strong and independent
Slmz I have similar problems and I have learnt to keep away. That is best. One day they will realise the errors of their ways and ask forgiveness. Till then stop hurting urself. Live ur life independently and wait for them to love you. If they don't do anything on their side, then it means they don't want anything to do with u. I'm sorry its harsh but its true. If they can't love you, then rather stay away completely. Its best for ur own happiness and I have realised this after ten years. Iv tried and tried and in the end all I got was heartache. Please save urself the agony walk away. Let them love you and respect you and appreciate you. Let them come to u and if they can't do that they don't deserve us dils who want to care for them. Be strong