Mother inlaw n sister inlaw
Slms I need help urgently. I'm married almost 2years,I have a 3month old daughter,my husband left us to stay with his parents. They control him a lot,they have no respect 4the fact that he is 22yrs old and is the soul provider at home. They refuse 4him to be apart of mine n babys lives. A moulana confimed that they using black magic to get him to leave us for they don't want him to provide 4us,they want everything from him. They drain him 4every cent. When he complains that he doesn't have they ask him what he does with his money.
I've never stopped him from providing 4them but they taking advantage. They always make sure he doesn't do what I ask of him. All his spare time goes to them.
Hubby says that if I want my own place that I have to get a job!pay rent and put fooD on the table as he can't n won't do bcoz his parents are his priority.
I've went to jamiat to try and get some1 to talk to him and them. But they refused when the moulana called them.
I have a 3month old baby and I want her to grow up with her father. I've tried talking to him,tried meeting him halfway. But whatever my mother in law is doing is very strng as he never listens to what I've got to say.
His 16 year old sister dictates to him. She has no repect 4him. I don't know what to do anymore.
If any1 can guide me as to what to do plz I would really appreciate it.
mother in law and sister in law
Slms to 1 and all. Jazakallah 4 all the advice. It means a great deal to me.As a wife I encourage him to do 4them
But he insists that they come first. I'm living with my mother and 2brothers at the moment.
He says that he will come and stay with me if I get a job (I am waiting 4 feed back from an interview that I've attented a few days ago.
I don't mind paying the rent and putting food on the table but is it not his duty to look after me?
2day was his day off work and he came to see us n to take us to his parents house 4 them to see our child ,dispite knowing that they doing black magic and that they don't want him with us. I agreed. B4 we left 4their place we went to get a few things that I needed 4baby,I remembered I needed more of my shampoo n conditioner n took some. When he he asked who was paying 4it bcoz he isn't. So I put it back on the shelve.
I love him a lot and I know he loves me. Yes I hurt him b4 but I've made maaf 4it and have never done it again. Yet he keeps hurting me. And I still run back
Anyway we got to his parents everything was fine untill his sister got home. I was packing the rest of things that was at their place wen my mil took my baby to their room I asked her to please not give her to my sister in law,(I don't trust her with my baby as I had a miscarriage in 2011 becoz of her and also she gave my baby colic drops straight into the mouth even tho there was a big thing saying DO NOT ADMISTOR to infints straight from dropper ) my mother in law still gave my child to her and went to check on her. I got upset to took my baby away.
Anyway a long story short. They got upset started swearing at me and my mother inlaw told me to f**** out of her house b4 she f***s me up.
I took all my things and hubby brought me back to my mums place. Just like they look out 4their daughter,I do 4mine.
Allah knows best I'm not a nasty person I have a very soft heart but don't take advantage of me. I walked out and greeted them nicley.
As f now if they don't want to see me,they won't see or be apart of my daughters life
Allah is great and insha allah with what the moulana gave me to read and burn will bring back my husband and make them back off.
After all this I still told him that he must support them n put food on their table
Jazakallah again. May allah bless u all