Slmz please help me to understand another perspective on this issue.
Why would a family member who doesn't like me, talk to me or have any sort of relationship with, buy gifts for kids and I? Why? What does it mean? I feel so burdened with these gifts as if i owe them something, if its meant to mend ties then alhamdulillah but when we togather, its as if we strangers. What is the purpose of this? Its bothersome and irritating.
