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  • 21-03-2018, 10:22 PM
    Thereís honestly no set of rules for the Doís and Donít. Apart from reading your first salaah together and making dua for eachother there is no hard and fast rule. Take it how it comes and most importantly just be calm. I got married 2 months ago and I was just as nervous. But alhamdullilah there was no need to be. On my wedding night we got to the hotel room, we talked and chatted abit and then I removed makeup and showered, and we read our salaah together and just got comfortable. In terms of intimacy, there was no pressure to do anything, we got used to the idea of being around eachother, we talked and cuddled until 3am and fell asleep and woke up for fajr, thatís how the next couple of nights went. We only got intimate days later after we were more comfortable and not as shy and alhamdullilah that helped so much. So donít rush it, get comfortable, talk about things, and donít stress. I was really stressed about it & there was no need to be. itís going to be one of the best nights of your life and most memorable, regardless of whether youíre intimate with eachother on that very night or not. So just be comfortable. May Allah make it easy for you and grant you a beautiful and blessed marriage.
  • 21-03-2018, 09:15 PM
    Whatever comes naturally. There are no do's and donts. The first night my husband took me to a luxury hotel, we prayed our first salah together, went out to eat and went to bed. The first week we just spent time together alone, went shopping, got to know each other more and "played the fool". It was pretty much just going with the moment kind of thing and Alhamdulillah it was the best to feel at ease by feeling no pressure to do anything.
  • 21-03-2018, 07:27 PM

    first night

    I'm going to get married soon and want advice about the first night and week. What to do and what not to do

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