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Why the hurry?

This always upsets me. I can understand being lonely and being ready to settle down, but I don't understand why as women society pressures us to get married in our early 20s. There is nothing wrong with us at 25 or even 28. We do not come with an expiry date!! They say men always want younger women, but what happens when you're 40, if you marry such a man when you are 22? You will no longer be young, will he not be tempted? Please please do not think there is something wrong with you if you are in your mid/late 20s and unmarried. It is better to be married to a good man later than married to just some guy when you are young. Use this time to be independent and learn something about life. We need more strong women in our society.

Transliteration

Originally Posted by Unregistered

Salaams can one please help with the english transliteration surah mumtahana in 30th para?a friend that's a revert is requesting this,and I do not want to write out the sura in case I write it out incorrectly.jazaks

This website has translation (in different languages & with choice of translators) as well as transliteration & you can also listen to the recitation: http://quran.com/

unmarried

slms all you singletons,why is it that people look down upon us unmarried ladies who cannot find partners especially when we attend weddings or funerals. i am in the same boat and people always assume something is wrong with you or you just to fussy.i think that our generation of woman are strong and independent and we would like to settle down but our prospects are limited.

Ameen
I'm also on the same boat...
I really want to settle down

time will determine all

InshAllah, may Allah swt grant all the single muslims with decent caring spouses which we are compatable with ameen.

i am also in my 20's in the medical profession and unmarried :-(

wish i had a companion to share my life with at this point in time.....

dont worry, u are not alone.....may Allah swt accept all our duas IA

Aslkm,

Please note that Surah Mumtahina is in the 28th para and not in the 30th.

reply to unregistered

I'm a 27 year old female in the medical field and have been stressing a lot as age is going and my studies has kept occupied but now that I'm completed its quite difficult finding the right one.

Originally Posted by Unregistered

I wish I had all u single ladies contact numbers. I work in a hospital n most of d doc, dentists, surgeons concentrated on finishing their studies. Alhamdulillah they hav but their social life took a toll. They now in their late 20s early 30s looking to settle only to find out that mos t girls got married. Such wonderful men lookin for partners. Once u in d workin environment its hard to meet new people n u not always attracted to ur colleagues. So yes ladies, there r men out there in d same boat askin d same questions

http://www.alislam.co.za/cms/archive...b_sub_marriage

as hope says ask them to all single and serious about finding marriage partners. why not try the nanima matchmaking..http://www.nanima.co.za/category/matchmaking/ lots of haaro poiroo and haari poiri's there..

I wish I had all u single ladies contact numbers. I work in a hospital n most of d doc, dentists, surgeons concentrated on finishing their studies. Alhamdulillah they hav but their social life took a toll. They now in their late 20s early 30s looking to settle only to find out that mos t girls got married. Such wonderful men lookin for partners. Once u in d workin environment its hard to meet new people n u not always attracted to ur colleagues. So yes ladies, there r men out there in d same boat askin d same questions