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09-04-2014, 10:19 AM
Aslm I have been so hurt and shock at the relationship I share wit my friend as I took her as my sister shared everything of my life wit her the day I got married I never let my husband get in the way of tis bond we shared as I loved her and would do anything for her,anyways I was in a bad phase of my life a few months back very ill after I gave birth and as shocking as it is I never expected for her to not even phone,message or come and see me while I was on my death bed in hospital,I was so sick tat I even landed up in ICU,the reason she didn suck up to me as she said its cos I deleted her off my bbm and honestly my phone broke I lost everything,was tat reason enough for her not to care about me???or am I just being childish??she was in a reltionship at tat time and now she's married she cut me out of everything didn want me to no anything about her husband to b up until her wedding she didn invite me her mother did and she didn ask even once wen am I comin as I phoned every week to ask if she need anything I got watever she needed and in the end I gave it to her and she made like it was nothing and said just leave it all there cos there isn any space in my bag I told her I'll pack it in she said the bags were locked and someone else has the keys so I left it,everytym I went to the house she didn even greet me even as a muslim...but I stayed on cos her mummy begged me and I take her like my own mother until the wedding day she didn even bother to ask me to take a single photo wit her at her wedding and wen it was my tym I made sure my mummy calls her and her mother cos I wanted them to b part of everything...is there anything left to save tis relationship or must I move on as I am very depressed about tis situation on her wedding she asked me to help her get done the morning I went her mummy told me I must leave it cos she has some other ppl to help I message twiced but no reply,I feel betrayed,angered, depressed and most of all hurt tat I don't wana speak to her again but my heart says a different thing during the years of our friendship I have bEen there for her shared everything wit her my wedding tym I didn do anything without showing her she helped me get done every nyt of the wedding week packed my bags I left things for her to do cos I new I could count on her but she didn feel the same about me after evrything we had been through pls advise me on tis I dono how to get passed all tis and move on