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28-10-2013, 12:58 PM
Slmz. Before I give out my issue I'd like to say iv been dating this decent girl for about 3 years and of course its time for nikkah.
How ever. In our 3 years we were never intimate. The most we have done is hold hands etc. Her dressing is extremely moderate. I'm talking 1980s old lady type. Yes I have tried to bring up the subject but she is insistent that that's only for marriage. She also is very bland about the topic. She's like oh I'll juz do my duty as a wife. Now that's pretty knocking out the enthusiasm out of me.
I'm just bracing myself because towards our nikkah iv just lost this sense of lust and desire towards her now.
I really do love her a lot but it seems I'm destined for a prude of a wife lol.
Any advise on how to handle or on what to expect will be appreciated.
How ever. In our 3 years we were never intimate. The most we have done is hold hands etc. Her dressing is extremely moderate. I'm talking 1980s old lady type. Yes I have tried to bring up the subject but she is insistent that that's only for marriage. She also is very bland about the topic. She's like oh I'll juz do my duty as a wife. Now that's pretty knocking out the enthusiasm out of me.
I'm just bracing myself because towards our nikkah iv just lost this sense of lust and desire towards her now.
I really do love her a lot but it seems I'm destined for a prude of a wife lol.
Any advise on how to handle or on what to expect will be appreciated.