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Slms nani. I am 25 years old and not married. It worries me that no boys are interested in me and I feel that I am getting older with less of a chance of getting married. Has anyone else been in the same situation? Any ayats I can pray? Please advise!

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Jee, you can read surah mumtahana in 30th para everyday for 30 days. Inshallah u will get married soon.

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و عليكم السلام و رحمة الله و بركاته
I am in a similiar situation as you are. But I have never seen it as a negative thing. As you get older and mature, you are wiser in knowing what you are looking for in a spouse one day إنشاء الله. It is all in Allah's hands and I all you can do is make duaa.it's not all about age also, it's about marrying someone for the right reasons. It seems that in general, girls are getting married younger and younger without having a true idea on what marriage is and what it entails. I know of 25 year olds who got married very young and are divorced already. Most of whom wished they were older before making such a significant commitment. In essence what i'm saying is that don't put any unnecessary stress or worry on yourself. When Allah means for it to happen for You, it will إنشاء الله.

[Dimples]

I am also in the same situation, all my cousins are married even the ones younger than me. I was at a point where I thought I'm at fault coz a few proposals did not work out....but Allah is great and he is the best of planners and evrytn happens with time so I've decided to leave it to him in sha allah it works out for us all

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Salaams can one please help with the english transliteration surah mumtahana in 30th para?a friend that's a revert is requesting this,and I do not want to write out the sura in case I write it out incorrectly.jazaks

[Hope]

Always trust that Allah knows best. If you are sitting and waiting for proposals maybe you should be proactive and maybe join nanima's matchmaking thing or see if there is anyone you interested in and arrange something. seems confidential and discreet.
wake up for tahajud. please verify with a learned scholar but i was told to read surah kahf for 40 days at the same time of the day. Alhamdulillah I am married. Turn to Allah. Maybe fast more as duas get accepted after fasting.

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I wish I had all u single ladies contact numbers. I work in a hospital n most of d doc, dentists, surgeons concentrated on finishing their studies. Alhamdulillah they hav but their social life took a toll. They now in their late 20s early 30s looking to settle only to find out that mos t girls got married. Such wonderful men lookin for partners. Once u in d workin environment its hard to meet new people n u not always attracted to ur colleagues. So yes ladies, there r men out there in d same boat askin d same questions

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as hope says ask them to all single and serious about finding marriage partners. why not try the nanima matchmaking..http://www.nanima.co.za/category/matchmaking/ lots of haaro poiroo and haari poiri's there..

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http://www.alislam.co.za/cms/archives/publication_category/pub_sub_marriage

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I'm a 27 year old female in the medical field and have been stressing a lot as age is going and my studies has kept occupied but now that I'm completed its quite difficult finding the right one.
I wish I had all u single ladies contact numbers. I work in a hospital n most of d doc, dentists, surgeons concentrated on finishing their studies. Alhamdulillah they hav but their social life took a toll. They now in their late 20s early 30s looking to settle only to find out that mos t girls got married. Such wonderful men lookin for partners. Once u in d workin environment its hard to meet new people n u not always attracted to ur colleagues. So yes ladies, there r men out there in d same boat askin d same questions

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Aslkm,

Please note that Surah Mumtahina is in the 28th para and not in the 30th.

[miss :-)]

InshAllah, may Allah swt grant all the single muslims with decent caring spouses which we are compatable with ameen.

i am also in my 20's in the medical profession and unmarried :-(

wish i had a companion to share my life with at this point in time.....

dont worry, u are not alone.....may Allah swt accept all our duas IA

[Unregistered]

Ameen :)
I'm also on the same boat...
I really want to settle down

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slms all you singletons,why is it that people look down upon us unmarried ladies who cannot find partners especially when we attend weddings or funerals. i am in the same boat and people always assume something is wrong with you or you just to fussy.i think that our generation of woman are strong and independent and we would like to settle down but our prospects are limited.

[Joburger]

Salaams can one please help with the english transliteration surah mumtahana in 30th para?a friend that's a revert is requesting this,and I do not want to write out the sura in case I write it out incorrectly.jazaks

This website has translation (in different languages & with choice of translators) as well as transliteration & you can also listen to the recitation: http://quran.com/

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This always upsets me. I can understand being lonely and being ready to settle down, but I don't understand why as women society pressures us to get married in our early 20s. There is nothing wrong with us at 25 or even 28. We do not come with an expiry date!! They say men always want younger women, but what happens when you're 40, if you marry such a man when you are 22? You will no longer be young, will he not be tempted? Please please do not think there is something wrong with you if you are in your mid/late 20s and unmarried. It is better to be married to a good man later than married to just some guy when you are young. Use this time to be independent and learn something about life. We need more strong women in our society.