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03-06-2013, 01:34 PM
slmz
I need to vent
im married for 3 years and live next to my inlaws. i work full time so me and hubby only get to spend time togather in the evenings and weekends. unfortunately my husband always seems to put me second- with regards to everything. his family and his life. i feel im constantly competing for his time and his attention- i have no kids yet and im scared that kids will mayb make this situations worst as it stands right now. if we are planning to do something togather my mil or fil or sil will cum up with something that needs to be done and my hubby will break plans with me no matter hoe inadvance those plans with me wer made . so i feel he takes me for granted. he wouldnt dare refuse his family over me. its constantly upsetting me and i dont know if i can take much more of it. i have spoke n to him abt it and he "promises" things will change but they dont. its always the same. as husband and wife i think we entitled to spend time alone yet my inlaws were lay things on him and he will never say no even knowing that me his wife also has a right over his time.i can honestly say as a couple we are drifting apart bcoz we have NO time togather alone. its always something or the ada. if my sil wants to leav her kids by my mil it becomes my responsibility to take care of dem- no time with hubby den aswell. i have had enough.
I need to vent
im married for 3 years and live next to my inlaws. i work full time so me and hubby only get to spend time togather in the evenings and weekends. unfortunately my husband always seems to put me second- with regards to everything. his family and his life. i feel im constantly competing for his time and his attention- i have no kids yet and im scared that kids will mayb make this situations worst as it stands right now. if we are planning to do something togather my mil or fil or sil will cum up with something that needs to be done and my hubby will break plans with me no matter hoe inadvance those plans with me wer made . so i feel he takes me for granted. he wouldnt dare refuse his family over me. its constantly upsetting me and i dont know if i can take much more of it. i have spoke n to him abt it and he "promises" things will change but they dont. its always the same. as husband and wife i think we entitled to spend time alone yet my inlaws were lay things on him and he will never say no even knowing that me his wife also has a right over his time.i can honestly say as a couple we are drifting apart bcoz we have NO time togather alone. its always something or the ada. if my sil wants to leav her kids by my mil it becomes my responsibility to take care of dem- no time with hubby den aswell. i have had enough.