View Full Version : what to do? libido

17-05-2013, 04:23 AM
Married for the past few months n I'm findin it difficult cos my sex drive is way higher than hubbys. I want it often n I love it when we intimate. What can I do?? Any 1 in the same situation. Please help? :(

07-06-2013, 04:52 PM
It is not unusual for couples to have different sex drives, but it is important to manage this for the harmony of the relationship. Usually, a woman's libido changes, depending on where she is in the menstrual cycle. Many women usually have a higher libido when they are ovulating. It is important that you feel free to discuss these issues with your hubby so that he understands how you feel & to work together to address the issue. Intimacy between a couple should be more than just sexual intercourse. It should also include your hubby masturbating you to provide some satisfaction - this is permissible in Islam. It is also important to ensure that both of you achieve full satisfaction in your sexual relationship. It takes time to adjust to life after marriage & communicating what you prefer & like is essential.

11-12-2017, 11:04 AM
how i wish i had a wife like you. most of the time its the men that are crying for sex and women deprive them.

01-01-2018, 12:01 AM
Try some education about the female body and then try for quality not quantity. You can learn techniques of getting 3 in 1 or more. If you master it then boom solved. If not then try to understand why hubby isnít interested. Sore back, or maybe he doesnít know much or maybe heís getting happiness through a different source or maybe he is anxious and distracted. Find the cause remove it and you should be able to runneth your own cup over.