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I would like to knw wats the islamic ruling on intimate roleplay between husband n wife. R they allowed to hav a dominate submissive relationship?

[Ml.Habib Bobat]

Walaikum Salaam

Nikah/Marriage is a unique bond through which Allah grants amazing love between the spouses, one should enter into Nikah with the correct intention and the correct mind frame.

A dominate submissive role in a marriage is not ethical & contrary to Shariah due to the following
1.No real love will remain in the marriage simply because the partner will be used a sex tool and no love can remain in such a case.
2.No self-respect and dignity
3.No mutual love
4.The partner will be looked down with inferiority
5.This leads to adopting loose morals which is totally contrary to Islam
6.Your wife is your life partner not you’re sex tool, she is a human and Allah has given her dignity as Allah says in the Quran “verily we (Allah) have given dignity to the Human race above all other creation” hence in the above case a person is clearly going against the verse of the Quraan by removing the dignity that Allah has given.

These are sexual fantasies which people want to fulfill. We are humans and we should live like humans and most of all Allah has blessed us with Islam which makes us even more unique than others.

And Allah knows best

ML.Habib Bobat