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17-08-2012, 08:44 AM
Salaams
What would be the best way to assist a spouse or loved one that has bad breath,
I often overlook and sacrifice so as not to hurt any feelings or offend my spouse but
sometimes I get a headache with the smell, Please do not tell me if I love my spouse
I will overlook and sacrifice for the love, I often wonder if other people also get offended
when my spouse talks to them or interacts with people but how do I tell them?
I once mentioned that we should go to a doctor/dentist and maybe check up if we have
bad breath and my spouse got offended and tells me they put up with so many of my
actions and they sacrifice so can't I sacrifice,
I feel like its beginning to affect our relationship because somedays I don't even want
to kiss them and if I offer half a gum or a mint they get offended and we end up fighting.
What advice would someone have to offer.
JazakAllah
What would be the best way to assist a spouse or loved one that has bad breath,
I often overlook and sacrifice so as not to hurt any feelings or offend my spouse but
sometimes I get a headache with the smell, Please do not tell me if I love my spouse
I will overlook and sacrifice for the love, I often wonder if other people also get offended
when my spouse talks to them or interacts with people but how do I tell them?
I once mentioned that we should go to a doctor/dentist and maybe check up if we have
bad breath and my spouse got offended and tells me they put up with so many of my
actions and they sacrifice so can't I sacrifice,
I feel like its beginning to affect our relationship because somedays I don't even want
to kiss them and if I offer half a gum or a mint they get offended and we end up fighting.
What advice would someone have to offer.
JazakAllah