mrs concerned

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Jus need sme advice ,4rm all the ladies n young girls ,tat r getting proposals,n intend on getting married.I'm gettin lots of dem,bt some of guys r reali reali good in character and everyting onli some tat r is jobless,promise's to get job b4 he marry's has a lot of responsibiltys to,please enlighten me on this subject

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It depends on whether you will earn enough to support both of you (and kids, unless you wait). If the answer is no, then I wouldn't advise getting married to anybody who isn't employed. If you really like one of them, tell them you'll wait, and wait a few months and see. Marriage is tough, it's even tougher with finances being tight. My husband and I have been married less than a year and we're both postgrad students. We live on bursaries. Some years we get enough money, other years we don't. It wasn't an arranged marriage, so I knew from the start things would be tough, but we had know each other for 5 years prior to getting married.
If we were newly wed and I didn't know my husband well, and I had financial difficulties, I wouldn't have survived. Good luck.

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It is not your responsibility to support your husband. It is his responsibility to support you. If he doesn't have a job why is he even considering marriage? Tell him to get his life in order before taking on the responsibilities that come with marriage!

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You are very young. Finish school, learn to type properly and then get married.