View Full Version : Wife is being very selffish

09-07-2012, 01:44 PM
Slms, Im married for 14 years, And it seems as if we as a couple a drifting apart. We are not as Intimate as before, Some say I need to take my wife for a test, She may be Bi Polar- She gets very moody, especially after her period. She don't want to have anything to do with me?
I dont want to divorce her as we have 3 kids.

09-07-2012, 08:02 PM
Perhaps she needs to see her gynae. I become terribly moody either before or after my period (this never happened to me before) and it's due to ovarian cysts which are causing an imbalance in my hormones. I become someone I don't know - I snap at my husband and the kids, I become extremely irritable and I just want my own space. It's really a hard situation for a woman as she is truly not in control of her emotions at certain times. Shukr, my husband is understanding and when I go a bit crazy he actually tells the kids not to take me seriously and I'll be fine in a couple of days. Don't be hard on your wife, perhaps it is hormonal. Allah keep you united and put love and understanding between the two of you.

09-07-2012, 08:10 PM
Being bipolar has nothing to do with mood swings. Maybe she is just a moody person.

09-07-2012, 08:47 PM
Have you tried talking to her parents, or some senior people, maybe she not interested in you anymore, there are always two sides to the story ,

09-07-2012, 11:06 PM
some ladies hav bad vibes frm the birth control tabs as well..best 2 visit da gynea&go 4 couple counselin..inshalah things come together again..dont wait &allow emotions 2 tire uguys out, act now! If the time comes wher u realy hav 2 save the mariage uguys mite b too exhaustd 2 try..

09-07-2012, 11:34 PM
I agree pcos does make u have terrible mood swings n she could b dis way due 2 her hormones, I agree take her 2 c a gynea I don't think she's delibrately being selfish

11-07-2012, 08:11 PM
Thanks for the replies.