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09-01-2018, 12:58 PM
aNANImous Question

I am a young female getting married ending of janurary, and I am very anxious about the first night, my husband to be has not seen me in anything other than an abaya, and I am very self conscious about my figure and whether or not he would consider me too fat. I am naturally a shy person and he is very understanding alhamdullilah. Any advice regarding marriage, intimacy and the first night would be appreciated

09-01-2018, 03:44 PM
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10-03-2018, 10:18 PM
Just take it as it comes. Don't stress about it.everything will fall into place.no panicking. Go with the flow otherwise youl spoil the moment.

16-03-2018, 10:20 AM
Salaams poster,

Speak with your husband on your first night. You don't have to do everything all at once. Tell him you would like to take it slow, start with kissing, hugging, touching. You don't have to show him your whole body until you are comfortable, and explain this to him. Hopefully he will understand and take it slowly with you. Eventually, as you get used to being intimate with each other, things will low naturally.