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28-01-2015, 12:47 PM
Salaams.
My parents have been married for 33 years now and mum recently found out that dad has been betraying her for 26 years of their marriage.
He even has another child from that woman, he didn't make nikaah with her and refuses to, the lady also doesnt want to.
It's very heartsore to go through, as a daughter too I'm finding it tough to cope because I've always looked up to my father. To know that he has cheated and hurt my mom is hurting me even more.
Mum doesnt want me or my 4 siblings to discuss it with dad. Dad is more worried now of his izzat than my mothers feelings and doesnt want her to leave. She wants out but then she's never worked , always took care of the house and me and siblings. Doesn't want to be a burden to any of us.
How do we deal with this?
I speak to my dad and show him respect but in my heart I know I lost respect for him.
My parents have been married for 33 years now and mum recently found out that dad has been betraying her for 26 years of their marriage.
He even has another child from that woman, he didn't make nikaah with her and refuses to, the lady also doesnt want to.
It's very heartsore to go through, as a daughter too I'm finding it tough to cope because I've always looked up to my father. To know that he has cheated and hurt my mom is hurting me even more.
Mum doesnt want me or my 4 siblings to discuss it with dad. Dad is more worried now of his izzat than my mothers feelings and doesnt want her to leave. She wants out but then she's never worked , always took care of the house and me and siblings. Doesn't want to be a burden to any of us.
How do we deal with this?
I speak to my dad and show him respect but in my heart I know I lost respect for him.